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Are you having difficulty 'getting' your mate? |
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Do you feel they don't understand you? |
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Do instructions from your boss leave you more confused then clear? |
Relationships with other people are one of the two most important
areas in our lives (the other being work), and for many, this is the
more difficult one! Research has shown us that the family we were
raised in becomes imprinted as the 'default program' for all our
subsequent relationships, intimate, platonic or with co-workers. Our
parents - or parent figures - determine the nature of the
relationship we have with them. After all, they're the adults and
get to call the shots!
Consequently, the way we were treated as kids becomes our default
setting for relating to all future significant players in our lives.
An attentive, empathic, nurturing parent(s) will raise a child with a capacity for similar relationship traits. For those raised by adults who, for various reasons, were unable to create such an environment, or be an effective relational role model, it can be a struggle to engage or sustain a healthy, functional relationship.
The good news is as an adult yourself, you can still learn skillful ways to relate! I'd welcome the opportunity to help you acquire the ways to cultivate the relationship with others that you desire.
CONTACT ME NOW TO START ACQUIRING THESE SKILLS. IT'S NOT TOO LATE!

2220 Mountain
Blvd., Suite 240,
Oakland, CA 94611
399 Taylor Blvd., Suite 210
Pleasant Hill, CA 94523
Tel. (510)
524-1720, Fax (925) 685-9682
josie@drjosielevine.com
I also offer coaching at Psycoach.com